{"id":44,"date":"2021-04-08T12:07:01","date_gmt":"2021-04-08T16:07:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/opentextbc.ca\/svmaccandrep\/chapter\/facilitating-discussion\/"},"modified":"2021-04-08T12:28:04","modified_gmt":"2021-04-08T16:28:04","slug":"facilitating-discussion","status":"publish","type":"chapter","link":"https:\/\/opentextbc.ca\/svmaccandrep\/chapter\/facilitating-discussion\/","title":{"raw":"Facilitating Discussion","rendered":"Facilitating Discussion"},"content":{"raw":"<h1>Asking Questions to Promote Critical Thinking<\/h1>\r\nUsing questions is a simple way to deepen discussion and to promote critical thinking. We all make assumptions in order to arrive at opinions of how things are, what is important, and how things \u201cshould be.\u201d Drawing out learner\u2019s thoughts through the use of critical questions can help you to understand how to connect key concepts to learners\u2019 personal experiences.\r\n\r\nKey questions to encourage critical thinking could include:\r\n<ul>\r\n \t<li>\u201cCould you say a little more about that?\u201d<\/li>\r\n \t<li>\u201cCan you take us through your thinking on that?\u201d<\/li>\r\n \t<li>\u201cWhere did you learn that?\u201d<\/li>\r\n \t<li>\u201cWhen did you first think that?\u201d<\/li>\r\n \t<li>\u201cWhen did you start thinking about that differently? What happened to change your mind?\u201d<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\nYou also can ask questions to help reframe an issue. For example:\r\n<ul>\r\n \t<li>Why do we teach people how to avoid sexual assault rather than teach people how not to sexually assault others?<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Why do you think that sexual violence is usually seen as a women\u2019s issue? What responsibility do you think men might have in stopping sexual violence? How are people of all genders impacted?<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<a class=\"internal\" id=\"myth\"><\/a><h1>Responding to Common Myths about Sexual Violence<\/h1>\r\nThere are many stereotypes, myths, and beliefs about sexual violence that do not reflect what research evidence tells us about sexual violence. There are many different approaches to responding to common myths during a discussion, including sharing statistics or research, asking a reflective question, clarifying definitions and concepts, or sharing an anecdote or experiential perspective. Below are some suggestions on how to respond to common myths about sexual violence (Sexual Violence and Prevention Response Office, 2020).\r\n<table class=\"grid\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;width: 100%\" border=\"0\">\r\n<tbody>\r\n<tr>\r\n<th style=\"width: 30%\">Common Myths<\/th>\r\n<th style=\"width: 70%\">Possible Responses<\/th>\r\n<\/tr>\r\n<tr>\r\n<td style=\"width: 30%;vertical-align: top\"><strong>False reports<\/strong>\r\n\r\n\u201cPeople are lying or exaggerating when they talk about experiencing sexual violence.\u201d<\/td>\r\n<td style=\"width: 70%;vertical-align: top\"><p>\u201cWhat are some reasons why people wouldn\u2019t disclose? How are people usually treated when they say something? Do we really think people would lie knowing these barriers and potential responses?\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\u201cThe number of false reports for sexual assault is very low, consistent with the number of false reports for other crimes in Canada.\u201d<\/td>\r\n<\/tr>\r\n<tr>\r\n<td style=\"width: 30%;vertical-align: top\"><strong>Clothing what a victim was wearing or doing<\/strong>\r\n\r\n\u201cIf they\u2019re dressing \u201cthat\u201d way then they\u2019re kind of asking for it.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cWhy did she go there [party, hotel, nightclub]?<\/td>\r\n<td style=\"width: 70%;vertical-align: top\"><p>\u201cNobody asks to be assaulted.\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\u201cResearch has shown that outfits aren't associated with assaults - there's no kind of outfit that makes violence less likely.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cConsider if this response was applied to other crimes. For example, if your car was broken into and the police officers began questioning you about why you chose to park in a \u201cbad\u201d part of town. Does this sound fair?\u201d<\/td>\r\n<\/tr>\r\n<tr>\r\n<td style=\"width: 30%;vertical-align: top\"><strong>Ulterior motives<\/strong>\r\n\r\n\u201cSurvivors are only looking for attention\/status\/money, or are acting out of regret.\u201d<\/td>\r\n<td style=\"width: 70%;vertical-align: top\"><p>\u201cWhat kind of attention do survivors who come forward (especially publicly) typically get? Are they famous now?\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\u201cDo we really think people would rather face negative social responses than manage their own regret if that\u2019s what happened?\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cHow might people\u2019s desire to see the world as a good\/safe place influence whether they believe survivors?\u201d<\/td>\r\n<\/tr>\r\n<tr>\r\n<td style=\"width: 30%;vertical-align: top\"><strong>Caution has gone too far<\/strong>\r\n\r\n\u201cPeople nowadays are too sensitive\/overly politically correct\/ anything can be construed as sexual violence.\u201d<\/td>\r\n<td style=\"width: 70%;vertical-align: top\"><p>\u201cWho tends to be the person who is behaving \u2018overly sensitive\u2019? Who tends to be the other party?\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\u201cIf you knew that something deeply hurt someone, why would you choose to continue anyways? What do you lose by \u2018not doing the thing that causes harm\u2019?\u201d<\/td>\r\n<\/tr>\r\n<tr>\r\n<td style=\"width: 30%;vertical-align: top\"><strong>Drinking alcohol or using other substances<\/strong>\r\n\r\n\u201cSo, basically, you\u2019re saying anyone who\u2019s had sex while they were drunk has actually raped someone.\u201d<\/td>\r\n<td style=\"width: 70%;vertical-align: top\"><p>\u201cThe law says that in some situations a person may be affected by alcohol or drugs so much that they can\u2019t give legal consent. When a person can\u2019t give legal consent, any sexual activity with them is sexual assault. If you want to do something sexual with someone who\u2019s been drinking alcohol or using drugs, you must be very careful that their thinking is clear. They must be able to decide freely if they want to be sexual with you and be able to communicate their consent clearly.\"<\/p>\r\n\r\n\u201cIf a person is unconscious or incapable of consenting due to the use of alcohol or drugs, he\/she\/they cannot legally give consent. Without consent, it is sexual assault.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cAlcohol is the number one drug used in drug-facilitated sexual assault.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cSome people who have been sexually assaulted blame themselves because they were drinking and might not describe what happened to them as sexual assault. If they didn't consent, it is considered sexual assault.\"<\/td>\r\n<\/tr>\r\n<tr>\r\n<td style=\"width: 30%;vertical-align: top\"><strong>Assumptions about perpetrators<\/strong>\r\n\r\n\u201cBut they\u2019re such a nice person! I\u2019ve never been uncomfortable around them.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cDifferent countries have different understanding so they just do it more.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cMost sexual assault is committed by strangers\u2026.usually outside in dark, dangerous places.\u201d<\/td>\r\n<td style=\"width: 70%;vertical-align: top\"><p>\u201cAbout 80% of the time, the survivor knows the perpetrator. They can include dating partners, acquaintances, and common-law or married partners.\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\u201cJust because you have never experienced something with a person doesn\u2019t mean others haven\u2019t.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cWe need to be careful with really broad generalizations about specific cultures. Perpetrators come from many different cultures and backgrounds. People from the same culture may hold very different values.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cThe majority of sexual assaults happen in private spaces like a residence or private home.\u201d<\/td>\r\n<\/tr>\r\n<\/tbody>\r\n<\/table>\r\nAdapted from: Sexual Violence and Prevention Response Office. (2020). <em>Bystander Intervention (Facilitation notes)<\/em>. Thompson River University. Used with permission.\r\n<h1>Transitions and Difficult Conversations<\/h1>\r\nWhile facilitating, you are likely to encounter challenging moments when you might not be sure how to respond, when you strongly disagree with the perspective of the learner, or when the conversation has shifted in a direction that makes you concerned for the comfort and safety of other learners.\r\n\r\nBelow are some potential responses for handling difficult moments (Sexual Violence and Prevention Response Office, 2020):\r\n<ul>\r\n \t<li>\u201cInteresting. I\u2019m not sure how to respond to that. Let me think on that for a minute and I\u2019ll bring us back to that\u201d<\/li>\r\n \t<li>\u201cI\u2019m not comfortable with where this conversation is going. I\u2019d like to bring us back to some of the activities\/questions we had planned.\u201d<\/li>\r\n \t<li>\u201cI\u2019m just getting conscious of time here. Let\u2019s move on for now.\u201d<\/li>\r\n \t<li>\u201cHow do you think that comment might land for a survivor? I\u2019m reminded of the commitments we all made when we came to the workshop\u2026\u201d<\/li>\r\n \t<li>\u201cTell me more about that.\u201d<\/li>\r\n \t<li>\u201cWhere did you learn that\/where does that thinking come from? Does anyone benefit from that?\u201d<\/li>\r\n \t<li>\u201cIt\u2019s okay for us to agree to disagree. Let\u2019s move on for now.\u201d<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n","rendered":"<h1>Asking Questions to Promote Critical Thinking<\/h1>\n<p>Using questions is a simple way to deepen discussion and to promote critical thinking. We all make assumptions in order to arrive at opinions of how things are, what is important, and how things \u201cshould be.\u201d Drawing out learner\u2019s thoughts through the use of critical questions can help you to understand how to connect key concepts to learners\u2019 personal experiences.<\/p>\n<p>Key questions to encourage critical thinking could include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cCould you say a little more about that?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cCan you take us through your thinking on that?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWhere did you learn that?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWhen did you first think that?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWhen did you start thinking about that differently? What happened to change your mind?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You also can ask questions to help reframe an issue. For example:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Why do we teach people how to avoid sexual assault rather than teach people how not to sexually assault others?<\/li>\n<li>Why do you think that sexual violence is usually seen as a women\u2019s issue? What responsibility do you think men might have in stopping sexual violence? How are people of all genders impacted?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a class=\"internal\" id=\"myth\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h1>Responding to Common Myths about Sexual Violence<\/h1>\n<p>There are many stereotypes, myths, and beliefs about sexual violence that do not reflect what research evidence tells us about sexual violence. There are many different approaches to responding to common myths during a discussion, including sharing statistics or research, asking a reflective question, clarifying definitions and concepts, or sharing an anecdote or experiential perspective. Below are some suggestions on how to respond to common myths about sexual violence (Sexual Violence and Prevention Response Office, 2020).<\/p>\n<table class=\"grid\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;width: 100%\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<th style=\"width: 30%\">Common Myths<\/th>\n<th style=\"width: 70%\">Possible Responses<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 30%;vertical-align: top\"><strong>False reports<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeople are lying or exaggerating when they talk about experiencing sexual violence.\u201d<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 70%;vertical-align: top\">\n<p>\u201cWhat are some reasons why people wouldn\u2019t disclose? How are people usually treated when they say something? Do we really think people would lie knowing these barriers and potential responses?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe number of false reports for sexual assault is very low, consistent with the number of false reports for other crimes in Canada.\u201d<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 30%;vertical-align: top\"><strong>Clothing what a victim was wearing or doing<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf they\u2019re dressing \u201cthat\u201d way then they\u2019re kind of asking for it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy did she go there [party, hotel, nightclub]?<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 70%;vertical-align: top\">\n<p>\u201cNobody asks to be assaulted.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cResearch has shown that outfits aren&#8217;t associated with assaults &#8211; there&#8217;s no kind of outfit that makes violence less likely.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cConsider if this response was applied to other crimes. For example, if your car was broken into and the police officers began questioning you about why you chose to park in a \u201cbad\u201d part of town. Does this sound fair?\u201d<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 30%;vertical-align: top\"><strong>Ulterior motives<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cSurvivors are only looking for attention\/status\/money, or are acting out of regret.\u201d<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 70%;vertical-align: top\">\n<p>\u201cWhat kind of attention do survivors who come forward (especially publicly) typically get? Are they famous now?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo we really think people would rather face negative social responses than manage their own regret if that\u2019s what happened?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHow might people\u2019s desire to see the world as a good\/safe place influence whether they believe survivors?\u201d<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 30%;vertical-align: top\"><strong>Caution has gone too far<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeople nowadays are too sensitive\/overly politically correct\/ anything can be construed as sexual violence.\u201d<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 70%;vertical-align: top\">\n<p>\u201cWho tends to be the person who is behaving \u2018overly sensitive\u2019? Who tends to be the other party?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you knew that something deeply hurt someone, why would you choose to continue anyways? What do you lose by \u2018not doing the thing that causes harm\u2019?\u201d<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 30%;vertical-align: top\"><strong>Drinking alcohol or using other substances<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo, basically, you\u2019re saying anyone who\u2019s had sex while they were drunk has actually raped someone.\u201d<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 70%;vertical-align: top\">\n<p>\u201cThe law says that in some situations a person may be affected by alcohol or drugs so much that they can\u2019t give legal consent. When a person can\u2019t give legal consent, any sexual activity with them is sexual assault. If you want to do something sexual with someone who\u2019s been drinking alcohol or using drugs, you must be very careful that their thinking is clear. They must be able to decide freely if they want to be sexual with you and be able to communicate their consent clearly.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf a person is unconscious or incapable of consenting due to the use of alcohol or drugs, he\/she\/they cannot legally give consent. Without consent, it is sexual assault.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAlcohol is the number one drug used in drug-facilitated sexual assault.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSome people who have been sexually assaulted blame themselves because they were drinking and might not describe what happened to them as sexual assault. If they didn&#8217;t consent, it is considered sexual assault.&#8221;<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 30%;vertical-align: top\"><strong>Assumptions about perpetrators<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut they\u2019re such a nice person! I\u2019ve never been uncomfortable around them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDifferent countries have different understanding so they just do it more.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMost sexual assault is committed by strangers\u2026.usually outside in dark, dangerous places.\u201d<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 70%;vertical-align: top\">\n<p>\u201cAbout 80% of the time, the survivor knows the perpetrator. They can include dating partners, acquaintances, and common-law or married partners.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cJust because you have never experienced something with a person doesn\u2019t mean others haven\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe need to be careful with really broad generalizations about specific cultures. Perpetrators come from many different cultures and backgrounds. People from the same culture may hold very different values.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe majority of sexual assaults happen in private spaces like a residence or private home.\u201d<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>Adapted from: Sexual Violence and Prevention Response Office. (2020). <em>Bystander Intervention (Facilitation notes)<\/em>. Thompson River University. Used with permission.<\/p>\n<h1>Transitions and Difficult Conversations<\/h1>\n<p>While facilitating, you are likely to encounter challenging moments when you might not be sure how to respond, when you strongly disagree with the perspective of the learner, or when the conversation has shifted in a direction that makes you concerned for the comfort and safety of other learners.<\/p>\n<p>Below are some potential responses for handling difficult moments (Sexual Violence and Prevention Response Office, 2020):<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cInteresting. I\u2019m not sure how to respond to that. Let me think on that for a minute and I\u2019ll bring us back to that\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cI\u2019m not comfortable with where this conversation is going. I\u2019d like to bring us back to some of the activities\/questions we had planned.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cI\u2019m just getting conscious of time here. Let\u2019s move on for now.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cHow do you think that comment might land for a survivor? I\u2019m reminded of the commitments we all made when we came to the workshop\u2026\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cTell me more about that.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWhere did you learn that\/where does that thinking come from? Does anyone benefit from that?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cIt\u2019s okay for us to agree to disagree. 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